This is part 3 (the last part!!! FINALLY!) of the radio interview from the show AiShiTeRu. Here is part 1 and part 2!

You can download the original interview at Yuki’s Blog!

Host: OK then sweetly you guys started a relationship. Holdings hands… so you gave her your first kiss?
Fung: Yeah.
Host: Did you know how to kiss?
Fung: Of course I didnt’ know! If I knew then it wouldn’t be a “first kiss”!
Kitty: I want to ask, were you her first boyfriend?
Fung: Yeah.
Kitty: Aiya! First time for both of you….
Host: Then you can both discover the process of this first kiss….
Fung: It was very very romantic.. we were both learning through every step.
Kitty: Aiya… this one is very good.
Fung: So I think it’s very sweet….
Host: So this whole story, from the confirmation to holding hands to the kiss etc etc, you need to put it in a cupboard and occasionally reminisce because you haven’t had another girlfriend since.
Fung: Haven’t had the chance since entering the entertainment industry….
Host: This is like a living widower….
Kitty: CHOIII!!! (what the Chinese will say when someone says unlucky things!) You’re the living widower…
Host: Have many goods here!
Kitty: Too bad your goods have been stuck in the warehouse for a long time! (all laughs)

Kitty: So this was the first time for you both, puppy love, there must’ve been many romantic moments, like the first Valentine’s Day, the first Christmas, how did you arrange them? Did you deliberately create a really romantic atmosphere to give to her?


Fung: Actually.. hmmm… really what can a student do?
Kitty: But those are always the most romantic…
Fung: I’ll save… at that time I didn’t have much money, so I will skip meals to save money, to buy a gift for her. Like the cheap rings…
Kitty: Bracelets etc?
Fung: No… didn’t buy that much.
Kitty: Did you make some silly things for her?
Fung: Er… handmade… about 10 years ago making dried flowers was quite popular, so I’ve tried to make it before.
Host: Yeah.. hang it backwards at home, then it dries, put it in a vase….
Kitty: and gave them to her…
Fung: Yeah, of course you need to decorate them a bit.
Host: So you were in the same university?
Fung: Yeah.
Host: Were you guys good students?
Fung: Ok la, actually it was a good thing because we can support each other. Plus we can study together, so happy.
Kitty: So your relationship lasted for around 3 years?
Host: Separated after graduation?
Fung: I haven’t graduated yet…. I came back to HK to work in the entertainment industry. It was too difficult.
Host: What happened to her?
Fung: Continued to study lor….
Kitty: Why did you guys break up?
Host: Need to sign contract with TVB lor!
Kitty: Yeah, TVB said – you can’t have a girlfriend!
Fung: No that wasn’t the reason. TVB didn’t force me but it was because long distance relationship is really hard to maintain.
Kitty: So when you came back you tried to keep the relationship going….
Fung: Yeah. But we both understand….
Host: Why did you come back so quickly and didn’t finish your studies?
Fung: Hmmmm…
Host: Caught cheating and then expelled?
Fung: Of course not!
Kitty: Don’t apply your stuff to other people la!
Fung: If you get caught cheating that’s pretty sad…
Host: I had a classmate who was expelled after he was caught… already studied for 3 years. (back to the topic)
Fung: The reason… hmmm… the opportunity came up and I felt I can give it a try so luckily I chose the right path.
Kitty: Otherwise you will regret it so much.
Fung: Yeah, but you need a decision so can’t help it.
Kitty: But why didn’t you try having both things at once?
Fung & Host: Long distance is very difficult….
Kitty: But the problem is you entered this industry, you’re really busy… so that’s good! I think that’s a good thing.
Fung: Us guys have the ability to not think too much but girls can’t. She’ll think about lots of things.
Host: She’ll call you, called you 8 times already and you don’t answer, she’ll think something happened to you but actually you were working… what can you do?
Fung: Yeah, even without the distance, if we were in the same place and I work in this industry, it’s still be very difficult. She’ll think – are you that busy? But I’m really that busy!
Kitty: Yeah I know, I’ve seen people working long hours….
Fung: And we can’t even talk for a little bit because the cameras are rolling.
Host: So did she come back to HK after graduating?
Fung: Nope.
Host: So she’s still overseas.
Fung: Yeah.
Host: Have you seen her over the years?
Fung: Actually we haven’t been in much contact, yeah.
Host: Sounds like there was some sadness in this….
Kitty: Are you too afraid to contact her? Or….
Fung: Er…. a little afraid.
Kitty: Because you broke up with her?
Fung: Not really, no one really suggested we should break up, we just naturally…..
Host: We don’t have anything to say in the next part of the show…. his love life is already fully exposed. This can end…
Fung: We can talk about my hopes for the future! I have many hopes…
Kitty & Host: Good suggestion.
Host: In the next segment we’ll talk about Fung’s hopes for the future…

(another break)
Kitty: So sad, up until this moment the host and Fung are still laughing about that moment when I was electrified by Fung…
Host: Rather unfortunate everyone couldn’t see it… but anyway.. forget the past and work hard for the future. Let’s see what the future holds for Fung…
Fung: For the future… hrmmm… I do hope that I can have a relationship in HK, I haven’t dated anyone in HK.
Host: HK girls… Kitty is here…
Kitty: Yeah I can represent…
Fung: Hrm… I will fantasise being able to publicly reveal a relationship, holding hands and do some normal things, I’m already satisfied. Maybe walking along the sea, watching a movie, eating meals… that’s already great.
Kitty: If you do have a girlfriend will you publicly reveal it?
Fung: I won’t.
Kitty: Why? Since you’ve said you want to do those things…
Fung: Because so far I don’t even dare to think about it, really need to put work as the number 1 priority.
Kitty: So maybe in a few years when you meet a really suitable girl…
Fung: If you’re willing to confirm a relationship, I feel it’s better to let it be, not deliberately announce it to the public, but not deny it either.
Host: So do you envy those colleagues or artists who reveal everything, and everyone accepts them.
Kitty: Yeah like Roger Kwok, from getting married, having a baby, they’ve revealed everything….
Fung: Hrm… not deliberately reveal to the public, just be natural. Because you’re a public figure you’ll become a talking point.
Host: Yeah I understand because as a public figure, if you announce it, or someone else finds out…. after you admit it you don’t know how much pressure there is going to be.
Fung: Yeah this is something you must weigh up…
Host: They’re hard to predict…
Fung: Because those things, if it’s revealed then a lot of things will connect themselves to the other person, including everything in your own work and will affect the other person.
Kitty: Yeah for example you’re dating, and you have rumours with Linda Chung…. suddenly it becomes a triangle relationship. Making everything even more messy.
Fung: This will cause misunderstandings where people will think the entertainment industry is messy. So there’re two sides to it…
Host: It’s not messy?
Fung: Of course not!
Kitty: Actually I don’t really know…
Host: You wouldn’t know this kinds of things! They never connect those news to you…
Kitty: Have you heard any gossip? Is it messy?
Fung: I don’t think so… actually in this industry, especially in television, the girls who know how to act normally has boyish personality. They’re quite boyish, you can see all the “fa dans” are like guys, including Linda, actually she has a boyish personality too.
Kitty: In this industry you need to be strong….
Fung: Her voice deceived you….
Host: Will she say “Lam Fung, DRINK IT!” - like that?
Fung: Not like that… she’s decisive, and won’t go back and forth.
Host: Yeah I think she’s quite easygoing too.
Fung: So she’s not as weak as people might think…
Host: Just joking jeh, actually people outside the industry thinks it’s complicated etc, but that’s not true. It has never been like this.
Fung: Actually before I entered the industry I feared for what I was getting myself into, what is this industry like? But afterwards I thought, pfftt it’s not like that!
Kitty: Yeah actually it’s just like any other job. (Fung agrees) The thing that is different to those who work as clerks or driver etc is our work is publicly exposed. And everyone wants to watch it.
Fung: Because for us a lot of things are more transparent, so everyone will know more about different types of things.
Host: So no one invites you to yum cha with those rich ladies?
Fung: Huh?
Host: After so long… no one has invited you to yum cha with those rich ladies?
Fung: No wor… because I have many relatives, many “aunties”….
Kitty: Need to take care of them would take a while…

Host: You’ve been back to HK working for so many years, there had been so many potentials, have you tried?
Fung: Hmm…. tried..?
Host: Was there a time you were tempted?
Fung: Yeah actually every year I might meet one or two whom I think “ah!”
Kitty: One or two every year, that’s pretty good!
Fung: Yeah… because…. maybe haven’t had one for so long…
Host: You get out of control…
Kitty: I feel Fung is even drier than me.
Host: He suddenly thinks he’s had a hard time… why do I have to be alone?
Kitty: During the interview he said many times, “I really haven’t had a girlfriend for a long time!” He continually said it.
Host: This show has the chance to bring people together…. hrm, Kitty?
Kitty: Hm. Later on we’ll exchange numbers.
Fung: Ok ok.
Kitty: We’re both busy so that’s good. So will you choose a girl who is from or outside the entertainment industry?
Fung: Actually before I thought I wouldn’t choose someone in the entertainment industry, because from what I can see, from those in the industry who are already married, you see each other before work and after work.
Host: Such a bother…
Fung: Not a bother but…
Kitty: Scared you might get bored…?
Fung: Not bored but then both your work and home lives are all in the same world.
Host: When you were young, was your school close to your home? Or did you have to catch transport?
Fung: Huh?
Host: Did you walk to school or need to catch transport?
Fung: My school was nearby, but I still needed to go to Central first and then go there….
Host: This is a personality test I’ve read in a book, if your school is close to home when you were growing up – like that’s how you went to school from year 1 to year 6, when you grow up and start work, you would want to be further from home. This applies to love as well, you’ll want someone from outside the industry…
Fung: Yeah, but finally in the last couple of years I’ve given up on it.
Host: Yeah if there’s someone it doesn’t matter where they come from! Don’t care!
Kitty: Don’t be so pessimistic! You have the looks and everything else! If you’re so pessimistic, then I should be worse! Plus in HK there’re more girls than guys, so you don’t need to be scared.

Fung: But I don’t have a chance to meet people on the outside….
Kitty: We can host a single party for you!
Fung: Ah! Really? Sounds good!
Kitty: Yeah, have a single party…
Host: We’re already having one today! I’m having a party for both of you! If you two don’t exchange phone numbers it’s not my fault! I’ve already done my best.
Kitty: Good! Ok Fung, let’s pretend this is a single party, we’re just meeting each other.
Host: Don’t need to be so straightforward Kitty…..
Kitty: What do we need to know about each other…?
Host: She’s really trying to get the most out of this… (laughs) be more humble la!
Kitty: I’ve been to these types of single parties so I have a few questions….
Host: You’ve been?
Kitty: Yeah, some friends organised them.
Fung: So is everyone at the table single?
Kitty: Everyone at the party is single….
Fung: So what happens, do they all just look at each other….
Kitty: Everyone has a few minutes to chat, say for example there are 15 guys and 15 girls, all single and come from different backgrounds. Everyone will be introduced, through some games to get to know them a little bit, then the most nerve racking part, the girls will sit on one side, each have their own space, the guys will start… (I think this is speed dating!)
Fung: She sounds quite excited….
Kitty: Yeah, at the start, let’s say, I’m facing you. You might have 2 minutes to chat with me. Then I’ll keep a score, and Fung, you can also keep a score. So after 2 minutes, the next person will come up to my table and chat to me….
Host: This game is quite good….
Kitty: Yeah….
Host: Talk about the end then Kitty…
Kitty: At the end you’ll look at all the scores, say I’ll write down from the 15 guys today, who do I want to exchange email address with the most? Not exchange phone numbers yet for safety reasons…. For example, you want to exchange email address with me, but in my list I don’t want to exchange with you, then that’s it…. nothing will happen. Need both sides to want to exchange…
Host: In the end how many guys did you exchange with?
Kitty: There were about 2 or 3….
Host: And then…?
Kitty: Nothing. (all laughs) Quite interesting……

Host: Back to what Fung had said, you said every year you might see a couple who has potential….
Fung: No, actually… what I’m talking about is………hm…. I have many fantasies, sometimes when I’m walking on the street I might see someone and think, “Ah..”
Kitty: Beautiful girl wor….
Fung: No… the feeling, but actually those are really superficial. But for something a little deeper, say in a working environment, you meet a friend’s friend, you might say hi and talk for a little, then you’ll think “Ah…. the feeling she gives you is quite comfortable.” So would want to get to know her a little more….
Host: And then….
Kitty: Take it slowly….
Fung: But don’t have the chance….
Kitty: Because you’re busy….
Fung: The time… (sigh) very difficult.
Kitty: Has it been comfortable chatting with us today?
Fung: Very comfortable.
Host: OK Kitty that’s enough! Do you know your manners Kitty???
Kitty: We can just ignore him… I don’t mind if you’re busy. I’m busy and you’re busy… we can exchange numbers, are you free tonight?? (The host keeps talking on top of her… Kitty goes on “chatting up” Fung.. Fung keeps laughing…)
Fung: Thank you, bye bye!